After Madeline died I didn't know where to turn. I went to the bookstore and wandered through the aisles searching for a book to help me. The selection was awful, and the two books they did carry were in the pregnancy section next to books about raising a daughter- something I would never be able to do now. I left in tears. To save you from that experience, I compiled a list of websites and books that other bereaved parents have found to be helpful.
If you find the options to be too overwhelming, please feel free to email me and I can share which ones were most helpful to me and make suggestions for you based on what it is that you are looking for.